Coloring Outside the Lines

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Coloring was one of my favorite things to do as a child. Back then of course there were no video games and limited tv channels. Life was simplier. I loved to color for hours.

That said, I remember outlining the edge of whatever I was coloring with a bold or dark color and then filling in the design, character (whatever) by lightly laying my crayon on its side and moving back and forth. I was a very neat colorer.

Recently, I came to view my husband as one who probably likes to color outside the lines. A funny incident occurred in which he was not really coloring but the thought process was quite the same. Here’s how it went. He was making an easy recipe of Stove Top stuffing, chicken, sour cream and cream of mushroom soup. And, he was making it for the entire family, including my son’s practically new girlfriend that I am hoping is (up to this point) thinking that we are the greatest thing since sliced bread.

(FYI, I want to mention that Stove Top chicken bake is not my idea of a gourmet or even a special meal, but occasionally we really love chicken and stuffing. And besides, it is a really easy meal so what’s not to love?)

But instead of making the recipe in the traditional way, my significant other did it his way. He laid the entire bag of dry stuffing on the bottom of the pan. He put the chicken on top of the dry stuffing then he mixed the soup with water and poured it over top of everything. He completely forgot (or shall I say….eliminated the sour cream). When I asked him why he didn’t follow the recipe, his answer was “it’s the same concept”.

I was tempted to either read him the riot act or pretend I had a last minute engagement I had to attend. I decided instead to let it go. When everyone was getting ready to sit down for dinner, my son’s girlfriend asked how he made the chicken bake. My husband generously offered the recipe to which I couldn’t help but add “that’s not really the recipe. he just likes to color outside the lines….”

This got a chuckle from everyone, including my husband. And how was dinner? Well, it was fine though the stuffing did not all puff up and so some of it stuck to the bottom of the pan. With a little cranberry sauce, it was just fine. Everyone declared it delicious and hey, I didn’t have to make dinner!

So though I like to color inside the lines, there are clearly others who love to go beyond and color wildly. I need to respect that. That is what makes life alittle more colorful.

Join me on my graceful journey.

6 Replies to “Coloring Outside the Lines”

  1. Joanne!!
    So great to see you last night – I’m so glad I have a link to your blog. I will be a faithful reader because I set a reminder on my computer to read this every Monday night!!

    I LOVE this first entry!! You are an engaging writer! Only hanging out with you and your SO, I can still really see the whole scene easily.

    I’m a color outside the lines-type most days. Every now and again, you’ll find me trying to color inside the lines cuz it feels good.

    Love ya, girl!!


  2. How funny. I just saw this post of yours and had to smile as I used the example of coloring outside the lines to illustrate grace in my post yesterday. Actually, it’s not my example but one from a favorite author of mine. Color is good – in and outside the lines.

  3. I enjoyed this post and how you drew the connection between coloring outside the lines and your husband’s tendency not to follow the recipe.

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