Hello and happy fall 2020.
How are you? I hope you are well and staying safe. This is how many of my emails and text messages started out during the past several months. Sometimes I can’t believe what we are living through. Going into a store and seeing everyone in masks (generally) is now routine. Politics aside, I’m grateful that many in my area make this choice. Thank you to those that do.
Back in early spring, it became clear that the virus was around to stay. Several of my weddings rescheduled and initially I was worried, but then I wasn’t. As a person who has a hard time committing to a lighter schedule, it was a blessing of sorts to be forced into a quarantine bubble. It felt a little funny, but really, it felt like a relief.
No more pushing myself to do another thing, make another meeting, or meet a new social contact. I could stay in my pajamas until noon (without guilt!), drink endless coffee or tea, and unselfishly nap in the afternoon. I binge watched The Crown and Virgin River, and re-watched old movies. When I finally grew bored, I painted my kitchen and dining room. I reveled in hanging new decor, donating bags of stuff I didn’t want anymore, and rearranging my closets.
Summer brought the garden, lush with zucchini, peppers, and tomatoes. I bought zinnias early and put them into pots, later transplanting them into the ground when it was safe. I stood up to the weeds, then gradually gave into them as the summer grew hotter. We watched as new retaining walls went up in our front driveway, long overdue. Friends (and strangers) wanted our raw honey and we were happy to oblige. My sister in law’s little backyard pool became a haven.
What frame of mind have I embraced during this time? It is ok to slow down. I can indulge myself and my family with any amount of time I want. I don’t have to do everything that comes my way- I can choose to say no. Money is just money. There are other things more important. These are the inspirational gifts I feel I’ve been given during this time.
I downloaded a book- Jim Lahey’s My Bread. It so inspired me that I ordered a five quart cast iron Dutch oven to bake rustic bread loaves. The recipe is easy and the bread is amazing. I baked bread a few years ago but abandoned it due to my own busy schedule. Now I have the time, and I love it. You can’t get anything simpler or more joyful than baking bread.
What have you discovered about yourself during this pandemic? What changes have you made? What do you think you’ll hold onto after it’s all over?
I’ve learned that I can slow down and not feel guilty about it. It is my hope that after this time is all over (and it will be over eventually), I can continue to prioritize myself and my family. Committing to a less hectic schedule is something I’m set on accomplishing.
Be well. Stay safe.
I discovered that I should never take my family or friends for granted . I miss all those occasions that we used to celebrate together. I missed my sons wedding this year and a trip to Ireland . Both are postponed . I found that I think twice before going shopping. But I have reconnected to nature and all it’s beauty. I find joy in going for long drives in the country with the love of my life .
Betty Jo, I too miss the events and occasions but I also have reconnected to nature. I love your comment. Things will be back to normal eventually. Thank you so much for stopping by. xo Joanne
I’ve learned that I didn’t have to make many adjustments. We pretty much stick to ourselves. I learned that I am not cut out for virtual schooling because these kids get too distracted and I can’t keep them on task. But I won’t send them into that hotbed of face to face learning. Not yet anyway. I guess I don’t have any positives to add, so I will stop here!
Aw, I sympathize with you Cathy! My granddaughter is only four so we’re not dealing with the school issue. We’re blessed. I’m praying for you. Xo Joanne